“Let’s have sex?” . . . A seemingly small question in the minds of many non virgins but for some un-popped cherries and pure as white bones it is a scary thought. Let’s face it, the society we live in today overdoses us with images and innuendo that muster thoughts and for some even a rush of blood to the . . . head. J
Sexual Intercourse: 1) The penetration of the vagina by the penis, Coitus (Latin).
You can have sexual intercourse that does not involve penetration of the vagina i.e., anal sex etc.
Now in my blog I will assume that you as the reader are of a discerning age, with enough discretion to know all about the consequences of unprotected sex i.e., pregnancy, HIV, STDs etc. If however the big question has been asked and you’re pondering upon your next course of action there are a few things that I would like to discuss that I hope you will find useful in helping you answer the big question and make the right decision for YOU!
Girls:
If you are a girl, YES the first time is painful. Imagine trying to insert a super sized hard tampon up that specific passage way. . . Enough said. Pregnancy first time round? Very possible, so don’t take risks. Make sure that your partner knows how to wear a condom and is wearing one before the ride begins. Think of the condom as your safety belt before a roller coaster. You get my drift? Check out the “How to wear a condom” video on the sidebar just to be sure. Obviously make sure you are comfortable enough with your partner because once you pop that cherry that virginity crown is gone. So make sure it’s exactly what you want to do. Even if you do decide to bail at the last minute, you have the right to say “NO!” Blue balls happen to most guys, he’ll get over it. Lastly, once you do get the hang of it, it is essentially an awesome experience if you’re doing it with the right person and all those endorphins that flow afterwards, make you understand why dolphins do it too, all the time!
Guys:
“Guys probably have as many fears and insecurities about their first time as girls do” I quote, from one too many guys. Every guy would like to believe that he has his game plan and is the best lover in the world. Coupled with the girl’s expectation and the peer pressure from all your mates it can be a little daunting especially if your partner is more experienced than you are. You might have a vague idea as to where you’re headed, no pun intended. You might have a vague idea as to how you should ‘move’. Or you might not. Point is sex is more like driving a manual car, you have a vague idea as to what the mechanics of changing gears are, but like all things in life practice makes perfect. But from a girl’s point of view, do be a gentleman, be a man, and listen to your lady. It will all make for an exciting time for the both of you. And don’t forget to protect yourself and your partner by wearing a condom.
